How do I start homeschooling?

Starting homeschooling is simpler than most parents expect: check your state's rules, notify the school if needed, pick a basic plan for reading and math, and begin with short daily lessons using books or free printables you already have. You do not need a teaching degree, a fancy classroom, or a perfect schedule. Consistency and a willing attitude matter more than anything else.

Know your state's rules first

Homeschooling laws vary widely by state. Some ask only for a simple notice of intent. Others want standardized test scores, a portfolio review, or specific subjects taught each year. Before you do anything else, look up your state's current requirements on your state department of education site or through a trusted group like HSLDA or your local homeschool organization. Do not rely on a friend's advice from another state. Print or save the checklist so you know exactly what is required for attendance, subjects, and records.

Decide whether (and how) to withdraw

If your child is already in public or private school, you usually need to formally withdraw them. Many states want a letter of intent or withdrawal form sent to the school district. Keep a dated copy. If your child is kindergarten age or younger and has never enrolled, you may simply start at home with no paperwork at all. Once the legal step is done, you are free to begin.

Pick a simple approach and first curriculum

You do not have to choose a lifelong philosophy on day one. Most new families start with one of three practical paths:

• Structured curriculum (workbooks or online programs that lay out each day)
• Unit studies (one topic like oceans or the solar system that covers reading, science, and art together)
• Eclectic (mix free library books, a solid math program, and hands-on projects)

For the first month, focus on just two or three subjects: reading/phonics, math, and either writing or science. A good starter set costs roughly $50–150 if you buy new, or far less if you use the library, thrift stores, and free printables. Look for programs written for homeschoolers that include a parent guide with daily scripts. If planning feels overwhelming, Arbor can help you map a full year and generate simple daily lessons so you are not inventing everything from scratch.

Set up a realistic space and schedule

You need almost nothing special. A kitchen table, a basket of pencils and paper, and a quiet corner work fine. Keep supplies in one bin so cleanup is easy. Aim for 1–3 hours of focused work for elementary kids and 3–5 hours for middle and high schoolers, broken into short blocks with movement breaks. Many families do core subjects in the morning and save afternoons for reading aloud, outdoor time, or errands. Start with four solid days a week and leave Fridays lighter. Adjust after two weeks once you see what actually fits your family.

A concrete first-week plan

Day 1: Read the state rules together (if age-appropriate) and set up the supply bin. Do 20 minutes of reading practice and 15 minutes of math review from last year's level. Day 2–3: Continue reading and math, add one short science or history picture book, and take a nature walk or kitchen experiment. Day 4: Review what clicked and what felt hard. Write down three things that went well. Day 5: Light day—library trip, board game that uses counting or strategy, or simply free reading.

Track the time and subjects in a simple notebook or spreadsheet. Most states accept a basic log of dates, hours, and topics covered. Take a few photos of projects; they make a nice portfolio later.

Keep records without stress

Create one folder (paper or digital) for:

• Your notice of intent or withdrawal letter
• Attendance log (just dates and rough hours)
• Samples of work every month or two
• Any test scores if your state requires them

Update it once a week so it never piles up. This also gives you proof if anyone ever asks, and it helps you see real progress.

Expect a transition period

The first 2–6 weeks often feel messy. Kids may resist, you may second-guess every choice, and the house will look lived-in. That is normal. Lower the bar: short lessons, lots of reading aloud, and outdoor time count as school. Connect with a local homeschool group or park day for encouragement. You will find your rhythm faster than you think.

You already care enough to research this, which means you are ready. Start with the legal step this week, gather a few books, and try three short lessons. Everything else can be adjusted as you go. If you want a clear year-long plan and ready-to-use lessons without the overwhelm, start free with Arbor.